It will be important to emphasize that harmony in marriage is not the absence of offense from your spouse, rather, it is the ability to exercise self control and spiritual maturity even in the face of the worst offence. The fact that you had a different upbringing and value formation from your spouse will make both of you see things from different perspectives, which can give rise to offense.

Beloved, don’t seek to be right in your marriage, rather, always seek common ground, thereby achieving harmony in your marriage.

Decision: harmony is key to martial bliss

Last modified: March 2, 2024